(revised) The grass is green on my side of the fence...

  You know people tend to panic in situations that are in reality inevitable.  Once something happens, it has happened.  You can now do nothing more than deal with the situation.  "Don't take my word for it".  God will never really give you more than you can handle or it was your time to go any way.  Don't cry over spilled milk, clean it up.  You think I felt like mopping it up, hell no... but it had to be cleaned up.  Instead of just rolling over, there is something in us all that makes you get up and live your lives despite the obstacles.  Why throw a pity party when your just going to experience even more as your life progresses.  Progress is what your actually striving for right.  To grow and prosper, become the person your parents worked their entire lives to see you become.  Is that the person you are today, or have you accepted the trials and tribulations that have been set in front of you.  Giving up socially and for lack of words falling off your square.  Are we not just decendants of Job, the devil striking him as a lepar to test his faith in the lord.  I don't know, but people are amazed when I am calm in a situation that most are completely be-fuddled by. 

Don't allow your self to be shorted by objects in the path of who you are, the grass is always greener on the other side.  There's nothing like completing a task or climbing over walls to achieve your goals.  Now thinking about it, you would have to agree...  Success is sweet!  Not saying that everyone should drop life as it stands and become multi-faceted millionaires.  But the accomplishment of your own views and ideas in life that makes you confident where your from and in your life.  I to have my days where I can only ask my self why, why are we trying so hard to be what ever it is we are to go where and do what. 

I often tell people to experience life a little bit.  Frequently finding people not experiencing some things in life for they feel they dont have time for.  Well what about you, who is going to show you the things in life if you don't experience them for your self.  This is not a video game we're playing here, life doesn't give you an extra life or points to go on to the next level.  You can't defeat the boss at the end of the stage to progress.  It's just a joke but in a way, that's just what it is.  I'm not trying to say suck everything up and show no emotion to given situations, holistically that's not healthy either.  But take the time to evaluate your own time and efforts.  You can take from each situation learning experience, growth and  prosper to the stage of life your most comfortable.  Of course, your not going to listen any way....